
Título:
The first rule of mastery : stop worrying about what people think of you
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Data de Publicação:
2024
GVPL_PUBLICATION_INFO:
Boston, Massachusetts : Harvard Business Review Press, [2024]
©2024
Descrição Física:
vi, 208 pages : illustrations ; 22 cm
ISBN:
9781647823245
Resumo:
With the proliferation of social media, the intense pressure to succeed, and our overreliance on external rewards, metrics, and validation, FOPO (fear of people's opinions) is running rampant. Our concern with what other people think about us has become an irrational, unproductive, and unhealthy obsession in the modern world. And its negative effects reach into all aspects of our lives. In The First Rule of Mastery, Michael Gervais shows us the key to leading a high-performance life is to redirect our attention from the world outside us to the world inside us. Gervais takes a look at the noxious effects of FOPO while laying out the mental skills and practices we need to achieve personal excellence-the same skills he's taught to the top performers in the world including sports MVPs and Fortune 100 leaders and teams. When we give more value to other people's opinions than our own, we live life on their terms, not ours.
Conteúdos:
Beethoven's secret -- The mechanics of FOPO -- Fear factors -- Identity: a breeding ground for FOPO -- Outsourcing self-worth -- The neurobiology of FOPO -- Barry Manilow and the spotlight effect -- Do we really know what someone else is thinking? -- We see things as they [cross out over they] we are -- Social beings masquerading as separate selves -- Challenges to our closely held beliefs -- Look who's talking -- The litmus test.
Linguagem:
Inglês