A deeply insightful guide to masculine power and fulfillment, to bring "our head, heart, and guts into full-blooded alignment" I've got a great job, relationship, and lifestyle. Why do I feel so dissatisfied and disconnected? Why am I not happier in my intimate relationships? How do I become more powerful-without becoming a jerk? Robert Augustus Masters has helped thousands of men address and work through issues like these. What he's found is that the common solution is challenging yet clear: We must face our unresolved wounds, shame, and whatever else is holding us back. We must bring "our head, heart, and guts into full-blooded alignment." With To Be a Man, this acclaimed psychotherapist and relationship expert offers a groundbreaking and deeply insightful guide to masculine power and fulfillment. He shares what's needed to enter a manhood as empowered as it is vulnerable, as emotionally literate as it is unapologetically alive-a manhood at home with truly intimate relationship. Listeners will explore: - How your past may be dominating your present - Shame in its healthy and unhealthy forms, and how to make wise use of it - How vulnerability can be a source of strength - Emotional literacy-an essential skill for relational well-being - Releasing sex from the obligation to make you feel better - How to disempower your inner critic - Bringing your shadow (whatever you've disowned in yourself) out of the dark - Embodying your natural heroism and persisting regardless of fear - What women need from men - Understanding and outgrowing pornography - Entering the heartland of true masculine power If you've taken in your share of popular advice on relationships and being a man, but realize on a gut level that it's going to take some serious inner work, To Be a Man offers real guidance. Masters helps you take on this most rewarding of challenges: doing what's needed to fully embody your authentic manhood.