Title:
Necessary endings : the employees, businesses, and relationships that all of us have to give up in order to move forward
Author:
Edition:
1st ed.
Publication Date:
2010
Publication Information:
New York : HarperBusiness, 2010.
Physical Description:
xiv, 238 pages ; 24 cm
ISBN:
9780061777127
Abstract:
While endings are a natural part of business and life, we often experience them with a sense of hesitation, sadness, resignation, or regret. But Henry Cloud sees endings differently. He argues that our personal and professional lives can only improve to the degree that we can see endings as a necessary and strategic step to something better. If we cannot see endings in a positive light and execute them well, he asserts, the "better" will never come either in business growth or our personal lives. In this book, Cloud demonstrates that, when executed well, "necessary endings" allow us to proactively correct the bad and the broken in our lives in order to make room for the professional and personal growth we seek. However, when endings are avoided or handled poorly -- as is too often the case -- good opportunities may be lost, and misery repeated. Cloud offers a mixture of advice and case studies to help readers: know when to have realistic hope and when to execute a necessary ending in a business, or with an individual; identify which employees, projects, activities, and relationships are worth nurturing and which are not; overcome people's resistance to change and create change that works; create urgency and an action plan for what's important; and stop wasting resources needed for the things that really matter.
Contents:
Endings: The good cannot begin until the bad ends -- Pruning: Growth depends on getting rid of the unwanted or the superfluous -- Normalizing necessary endings: Welcome the seasons of life into your worldview -- When stuck is the new normal: The difference between pain with a purpose and pain for no good reason -- Getting to the pruning moment: Realistic, hopeless, and motivated -- Hoping versus wishing: The difference between what's worth fixing and what should end -- The wise, the foolish, and the evil: Identifying which kinds of people deserve your trust -- Creating urgency: Stay motivated and energized for change -- Resistance: How to tackle internal and external barriers -- No more Mr. Bad Guy: The magic of self-selection -- Having the conversation: Strategies for ending things well -- Embrace the grief: The importance of metabolizing necessary endings -- Sustainability: Taking inventory of what is depleting your resources -- Conclusion: It's all about the future.
Language:
English